Still Thinking About Your Ex

Do you ever think about your ex? I have a friend that is having a hard time with a break up. So of course my brain is wondering if there is a time frame for these types of occurrence. Is it normal when you can get over your ex within a couple of days or weeks? Does that make you cold hearted? How long does it take for most people to let the past go and start over again? Several months or up to a year perhaps?

Personally this is a very interesting subject because I love to seek different opinions and views from others. What makes them hang on and what makes them afraid of letting go. Of course a major part of this probably depends on what went wrong in the relationship and the type of person you are. Like who broke it off first, who did what, who was cheating, who was carrying an affair and all that drama stuff.
In my personal opinion I think there are far worse things to go through in life than a failed marriage or failed relationship with your partner. For example you can have bad health, or a loved one that has passed, such a parent, or a child.  What about a missing child? Isn't that just a horrible feeling where you have no clue on the whereabouts of your child. And the unthinkable thought seeps in you even when you try to push it away. The thought of wondering if your child is still alive. You're hoping, and praying to God for him to bring your child back alive. You start to make bargains and negotiate with him just to have your baby back. These are some examples that I can think of the top of my head. 

I guess what I am trying to say here is that losing your significant other is indeed heartbreaking but it is not the end of the world. I think the healing process for everyone is different and we have to remember that some things happen for a reason. You may not understand the reason and that is ok. You are still living and breathing so you will have another chance to make this right. Take it one day at a time and know that the best is ahead of you. Don't let this defeat you. It is not going to be easy but don't give up. Don't ever let go of hope and faith. Always believe!
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This picture is hilarious to me. Hope you were able to get some small helpful information from this. Hang in there and remember to smile!